Essays

  • Essays,  Photo stories

    The spirit of generosity

    “When you take the time to acknowledge the abundance in your life and share the wealth, you attract even more blessings and reasons to feel grateful. In this way, receiving and giving creates a circle of energy that serves us all.”  ~Cheryl Richardson Holiday decorations 2017 / Cindy La Ferle Throughout the year, my inner grinch has been grumbling privately about how self-absorbed and self-centered some folks can be. But now that the Christmas season is here, my faith in humanity has been rekindled by the sight of so many unselfish people going out of their way to give something of themselves. You needn’t look too far to find these angels.…

  • Essays

    Christmas memories

    “Our hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of kindred, and we are better throughout the year for having, in spirit, become a child again at Christmas time.” ~Laura Ingalls Wilder A few pieces from my mother’s Santa collection / Cindy La Ferle I’ve written a few newspaper columns and magazine essays about the bittersweet task of sorting through your parents’ belongings while preparing for an estate sale. The whole process takes you on a winding trail of memories, starting from your early childhood and leading you right up to the moment you find yourself putting price tags on your family heirlooms. After my mother died, I couldn’t part with her collection…

  • Essays

    Old memories and new traditions

    “Family traditions help us define who we are; they provide something steady, reliable and safe in a confusing world.”  ~Susan Lieberman Thanksgiving at Nate & Andrea’s, 2017 / Cindy La Ferle My late parents loved holiday traditions, and I think of them often this time of year.Right after Thanksgiving, my mother would adorn every tabletop and wall in the house with beautifully crafted decorations that rivaled those at Colonial Williamsburg. My father’s favorite carol was “Joy to the World,” and he would belt it out, off-key, every time it was played on the radio in the car or on the stereo at home.  My folks also loved to entertain our…

  • Essays,  Personal growth

    Quiet desperation and the digital age

    “A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind.” ~Henry David Thoreau, Walden Red Oaks Nature Center / Cindy La Ferle Last week I was talking to a friend who also has a love-hate relationship with her iPhone. Like me, she forgets to check it sometimes and has to be reminded to put the thing in her purse — which seems to annoy other people. Not carrying a cell phone is now considered an act of civil disobedience.We agreed that smartphones have totally changed the way we live, in positive and negative ways. Life has taken on a sense of immediacy like…

  • Essays,  Photo stories

    Finding blessings to count

    Gratefully Yours / Cindy La Ferle “In the moments we are awake to the wonder of simply being alive, gratitude flows, no matter our circumstances.”  ~ M.J. Ryan This has been one of the most difficult years I can remember. Too many dear people I know are grieving unspeakable losses or facing worrisome health challenges. With so many of us separated from our families and loved ones — thanks to a raging viral pandemic — it’s disingenuous to try to put a Norman Rockwell holiday spin on any of it.   Still, I’m all the more grateful to the folks who’ve given me reason to believe there’s still an abundance of hope,…

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