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Featured, Workshops for writers, Writing and creativity workshops

“Writing Your Life” — a personal essay workshop

“We are important and our lives are important, magnificent, really, and their details are worth recording. This is how writers must think, this is how we must sit down with…

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September 14, 2023
Featured, grandparenting, Home & Family, Oakland Press columns, Where I'm published

What’s your grandparenting style?

“If I’d known how wonderful it would be to have grandchildren, I’d have had them first.” ~Lois Wyse About three years ago, I was thrilled to add “Grandma” to my…

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May 5, 2023
Aging well, Arts & crafts, Empty nest, Featured, Oakland Press columns, Where I'm published

School supplies for Mom

“I found I could say things with color and shapes that I couldn’t say any other way — things I had no words for.” ~Georgia O’Keeffe Shopping for brand-new supplies…

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August 15, 2022
Empty nest, Featured, Kid stories, Parenting advice, Where I'm published

Preparing for the empty nest: An essay about letting go

“It is not what you do for your children; it’s what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.” ~Ann Landers   As I…

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August 10, 2021
Aging well, Change and challenge, Featured, Where I'm published

A no-regrets guide to caregiving

“There are only four kinds of people in the world: Those who have been caregivers. Those who are currently caregivers. Those who will be caregivers, and those who will need…

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September 14, 2023
  • Health & wellbeing,  Inspirational quotes

    Things are looking up

    September 23, 2023 / 0 Comments

    Everyone I know has at least one ongoing problem or nagging issue that defies resolution, whether it’s chronic physical pain, a career crisis, or a social conflict that’s a chronic pain in the ass. It’s hard to make peace with something that you can’t make peace with, no matter how hard you try. Today’s quote is a perfect reminder to step back and enjoy the weekend without giving a thought to the annoyances and grievances that will be there on Monday. ~CL

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    May 22, 2023

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  • Friendship and relationship advice,  Generosity,  Kindness quotes

    Some thoughts on gifting

    September 22, 2023 / 0 Comments

    “Giving doesn’t impoverish us; it makes us richer.” ~Martha Beck, The Way of Integrity Who doesn’t enjoy getting presents? There are many different gifting styles and practices — and psychotherapists have some interesting theories on that. Some people get a thrill out of selecting the perfect presents for their loved ones, while others simply don’t express their affection with material things. I know many people who discourage gift-giving because they don’t want to feel obligated to reciprocate. Others don’t have a budget to buy gifts, but will gladly receive them. All said and done, the gifts we treasure come from the heart — or are made by hand. A dear…

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    Building better boundaries

    November 5, 2021

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    Receiving

    June 13, 2023
  • Change and challenge,  Health & wellbeing,  Personal growth

    Embracing the unknown

    September 21, 2023 / 0 Comments

    “The unknown is where all outcomes are possible; enter it with grace.” ~Message on a Yogi teabag I’ve always struggled with the unknown. The unknown is the gray area; a state of uncertainly; a question mark dangling over the future. The unknown leaves us hanging. The unknown leaves us alone with an overactive imagination. If I’m waiting for the results of a medical test, for instance, I envision all sorts of worst-case scenarios. If someone doesn’t answer my email or a text message, I tend to assume something is wrong. Of course, life is jam-packed with uncertainties, large and small. So when I read the above message on my teabag…

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    Listening is a healing art

    June 1, 2023

    Making the most of our days

    February 13, 2023

    How we grow

    July 19, 2023
  • Civility and manners,  Friendship and relationship advice

    How to be impeccable

    September 20, 2023 / 0 Comments

    “Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.” ~Don Miguel Ruiz Gossip. Who hasn’t been guilty of spreading it at one time or another? Though we all know better, we might be tempted to share private information that we shouldn’t share. Whether that information is true or not isn’t the point. The point is: If it’s not our business, it isn’t ours to share with others. Before we speak — about anything — it helps to question our own…

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    Unwrapping the stress of holiday giving

    November 12, 2022

    Selfish motives

    April 24, 2023

    The clothing of our thoughts

    December 1, 2022
  • Aging well,  Seasons,  Writing and creativity workshops

    Transitions

    September 19, 2023 / 0 Comments

    “It is when we are in transition that we are most completely alive.” – William Bridges September is a month of transitions. A new school year begins; summer activities wind down. As the light changes and temperatures drop, we prepare our homes and gardens for winter. We begin to stock the pantry with everything we need for cool-weather comfort recipes. In my “Aging with Grace & Courage” workshop last night, a woman remarked about the bittersweet aspects of autumn. She feels a little sad when fall comes, she said, even though she appreciates the beauty of the season. I knew exactly what she meant. A reminder of our own aging,…

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"Life Lines" features inspirational quotes paired with my photos, plus links to my published lifestyle columns and essays. New posts are added daily, so please visit often or subscribe for email updates. ~Cindy La Ferle

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