“It’s not your job to curb or contain yourself in order to become someone else’s idea of a worthwhile human being. You are amazingly worthwhile and capable right now. Not because other people think you are, but because you are in full control of the next step you take.” ~Marc and Angel Chernoff It’s tempting to follow the footsteps of others we admire. And while it’s easier to build a career, imitate a brand, or adopt a lifestyle that someone else has designed, it’s a lot more satisfying in the long run to create your own. At first it might feel scary to set yourself apart from others. But the…

“Apologies require taking full responsibility. No half-truths, no partial admissions, no excuses, no rationalizations, no finger pointing, and no justifications belong in any apology.” ~Cathy Burnham Martin I’ve always admired people who know how to apologize. Ironically, some people fear that admitting an error is a sign of weakness. It might seem easier to preserve your dignity by kicking your mistakes under the rug and acting as if they never happened. Or blaming someone else. Or making excuses. In reality, refusing to admit you screwed up comes across as arrogant or uncaring — and makes you look small. Apologizing takes courage, class, and humility. Those who set aside their egos…