The feeling is mutual
“We really have to understand the people we want to love. If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love. If we only think of ourselves, if we know only our own needs and ignore the needs of the other person, we cannot love.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace Is Every Step
It’s February — and I’ll be posting lots of good thoughts about love this month. But I like to think of “love” as an all-encompassing word that wraps its meaning around so much more than romantic relationships.
Today, Buddhist monk and peace activist Thich Nhat Hanh reminds us that real love means honoring the humanity of those we love. Real love is never about using or objectifying another person. Mutual caring is key — whether we’re talking about romantic love, family love, or friendship. You know you’ve got real love when your relationship feels comfortably balanced, not one-sided. ~CL