Mastering midlife friendship

“Despite social media, between two-thirds and three-fourths of Americans believe there is more loneliness in today’s society than there used to be, and feel they have fewer meaningful relationships than they did five years ago.” — Shasta Nelson, Frientimacy: How to Deepen Friendships for Lifelong Health and Happiness.  In “Rebooting the Buddy System” — this month […]

The gift of receiving

Is this National Chronic Pain Month? I’ve been battling deep pain in my right hip — 14 years after it was replaced — and several of my friends are recovering from surgery or dealing with other painful health issues. With that in mind, I’m posting an earlier essay I wrote after my last hip replacement surgery. […]

Fragile Season

Throwback Thursday …. This piece was first published in Literary Mama in 2005, my first year as an empty nester. Spring is just a few weeks away, yet the barren landscape outside my office window looks more like the moon than southeast Michigan. Mounds of brittle, gray snow flank the curb, and the sidewalk shimmers […]

How to write a memoir

This article was originally published in Michigan Prime, in November 2015. Your memoir may be the most valuable treasure you leave for your loved ones. Here’s how to get started… I’ll never forget a certain elderly gentleman who showed up at one of the first memoir writing classes I taught at a local senior center, […]

Traveling light in the new year

While packing clothes for a short vacation late last month, I realized (once again) that I have way too many drawers and closets in dire need of weeding out. January, the month of renewal and change, feels like the right time to dig in and start pitching. At the same time, I have a lot […]

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