Living in the past?
“Nostalgia is also a dangerous form of comparison. Think about how often we compare our lives to a memory that nostalgia has so completely edited that it never really existed.” ~Brene Brown
Some people believe nostalgia is a casualty of aging — but I’m not so sure that’s true. I’ve been nostalgic (and overly sentimental) since I was a kid. I’m the sort of person who loves old houses and anything with a history. I find comfort in rereading passages from novels with nostalgic themes (Ray Bradbury’s Dandelion Wine comes to mind) and sometimes I view the past through proverbial rose-colored lenses.
Which might be why today’s quote hit home with me. How often do you find that a particular memory — or your version of the past — has been “edited” by nostalgia? ~CL
3 Comments
Rick Smith
Nice one Cindy.
One of my favoritw quotes is by Mark Twain: “The older I get, the more clearly I remember things that never happened”
Cindy La Ferle
I like that one, too, Rick! Mark Twain still makes me laugh and smile 🙂
Peggy Ridgway
Cindy, I would like some real life examples of what you mean.