Recovering perfectionist

“Perfectionism is the enemy of the people,” wrote Anne Lamott. “It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life.” Are you a perfectionist or a control freak? If so, you’ll relate to my new column in the February issue of Michigan Prime, delivered this weekend with your Sunday Detroit News and Free Press. Click […]

No-regrets caregiving guide

In the November issue of AARP magazine, editor Robert Love saluted the 39.8 million Americans who currently provide unpaid care to an adult, dubbing them both “noble” and selfless. During the last six years of my mother’s life, I inherited the task of managing her long battle with vascular dementia. Had you asked me then, I […]

Small Business Saturday!

I’m a fan of thriving downtown business districts, so I like to support and promote Small Business Saturday — on November 28 this year. To show my appreciation for the independent merchants in my community, I make it a tradition to buy holiday presents and hostess gifts from my favorite shops on this special day. With its […]

Remembering my mother

It has been one long year since my mother died. On the first anniversary of her death, September 13, I am reposting the eulogy I wrote for her. In loving memory of Carlesta (Geisel) Gullion, the following was read at her memorial service on September 16, 2014. When you’re deep in the trenches of caring for […]

Life in the sixties

“This is a new year. A new beginning. And things will change.” — Taylor Swift August is my birthday month — always a time of deep reflection for me. Looking back on the past year, I am amazed at the incredible changes that occurred a few weeks after my 60th birthday. That’s the topic of […]

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