“We expect too much at Christmas. It’s got to be magical. It’s got to go right. Feasting. Fun. The perfect present. All that anticipation. Take it easy. Love’s the thing. The rest is tinsel.” —Pam Brown  If we’re truly honoring and celebrating Christmas, let’s take its core message to heart throughout the coming year. Let’s try to imagine living each day with more kindness, less confrontation. More compassion, less arrogance. More civility, less hostility. More generosity, less greed. More humility, less egotism. More honesty, less deception. More love, less hate. We could lead by example — and just imagine what a gift it would be if everyone conspired to do the…