Never assume

“If we are honest with ourselves, we have to admit that sometimes our assumptions and preconceived notions are wrong, and therefore, our interpretation of events is incorrect. This causes us to overreact, to take things personally, or to judge people unfairly.” ~Elizabeth Thornton, Scottish author of historical fiction

Things aren’t always as they seem. As every good magician knows, people interpret everything they see and hear through the filter of their own experience and beliefs. And sometimes they see and hear only what they wish to see and hear. It’s sobering, really, when you consider how easily any situation could be misjudged or misunderstood.

It’s never a good idea to jump to conclusions. Misinterpretation can be avoided if we pay close attention, listen carefully, and pause to consider what’s really going on in front of us — or behind the scenes. Every aspect of our lives — personal and political — will magically benefit from this practice. ~Cindy La Ferle