“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt — but the two rarely meet. Get even with people — but not those who have hurt you. Forget them. Instead, get even with those who have helped you.” ~Steve Maraboli Are you still hanging on to old wounds and hurts? As today’s quote reminds us, grudge-bearing is a waste of time. As it often happens, the folks who’ve done something grudge-worthy might be unaware of how deeply their behavior has hurt or angered us. Or they’ve already moved on. Not that anyone should tolerate chronic mistreatment of any kind. As any good therapist would…